EP 30 - How To Set Boundaries Without Making Others Feel Rejected 🙅🏻‍♀️

🌟Hey there, Shiny Minds! 🌟

In this episode, I’m diving deep into a topic that changed my life: How to Set Boundaries Without Making Others Feel Rejected.

As a recovering people pleaser myself, I know how hard it is to say “no” without guilt. In this episode, I share my own story, the science of why we people-please, and the exact tools I use to set boundaries with love, clarity, and confidence.

 

✨ Here’s what I’ll cover:

🌟 Why people-pleasing starts and how to break free

🌟 My 3 favorite tools for setting boundaries without guilt

🌟 Language that honors your truth and respects others

🌟 Real-life stories, including how I set boundaries with my mom!

🌟 The power of energetic alignment and self-knowledge

 

Ready to shine with self-respect and deeper connections?

Hit play, subscribe, and join me as we illuminate hearts and transform lives—one boundary at a time!

 

👇 What’s your biggest boundary challenge? Drop it in the comments!

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How I Got Here…

2011: Became a Licensed Trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming® (trained by Dr. Richard Bandler).

Earned a second Bachelor’s degree in Metaphysics from the University of Metaphysics.

2012: Became Lead Instructor of Leadership Communication Strategies at UCLA Extension.

2013: Earned a Master’s in Metaphysical Psychology from the University of Metaphysics.

2014: Became Lead Instructor and Course Author of "Managing Yourself and Others with Emotional Intelligence" at UCLAx and Received my first ICF CCE Accreditation (30 hours) for in-person training program.

2015: Achieved first “6 figures” in the US.

2016: Created Neuro-Shine Technology™ and became an official member of the Forbes Coaches Council.

2017: Named one of the 40 Under 40 Most Influential Turkish Americans.

2018: Won Global Woman Entrepreneur of the Year Award.

2019: Became an ICF Certified Coach (ACC), achieved full 60-hour ICF Accreditation as a CCE provider and launched "Be-Live in U" as the Academy of Neuro-Shine Technology™.

2021: Earned ICF MCC Credential (only 721 in the world at the time).

2022: Secured ICF Level 1 & 2 Coaching Education Accreditations.

2023: Neuro-Shine Technology™ reached 50+ countries and 500+ coaches, launched the Business Development Mastermind at the Forbes Coaches Council, featured on Kajabi’s main page and introduced 5 faculty members at the Academy of Neuro-Shine Technology™.

2024: Achieved PhD in Metaphysical Science.

2025: Received my 2nd Doctorate in Metaphysical Psychology, M. PsyD! 🥳

 

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