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4 Exceptional Leadership Skills

I've been teaching Leadership Communication Strategies at UCLA Extension since 2012. So I have a lot to say when it comes to leadership but I am going to keep it at four items so that we can really narrow it down and I can give you some very juicy, delicious, exceptional leadership skills.

If you are ready, let's go!

Made with love ❤️  for a better world with more love ❤️  and #ShinyMinds in it...

by Shiny Burcu Unsal

3 Reasons Why She Isn't Intimate With You (Anymore)

February feels like a month of relationships to me. Plus, we just had the Valentine's Day. Which means, technically, we are still in the period of LOVE ❤️ ... 

So, I would love to talk about relationships with the focus on "why she isn't intimate with you anymore".

We talked about the differences between masculine and feminine energy last week. We need to understand this topic a bit deeper so that we can dive into our relationships more intelligently. 

Thus, I'll bring them up again because they are IM-POR-TANT and when we really get these differences we will be able to understand what might be wrong in our relationships and create solutions accordingly.

And here is a very important note: You might be a gorgeous woman with a lot of masculine energy or a handsome man with more feminine energy. So these masculine and feminine energy qualities have nothing to do with your gender. And that's the trick. If you have too much of one, that can be a repelling effect in your relationship.

So here they are again:

 

FEMININE ENERGY                          MASCULINE ENERGY

Wants to be loved                             Wants freedom

Wants to be owned                           Wants freedom

Makes small things big                     Makes big things small

Hangs on to things                            Let's go   

Remembers                                        Forgets

Wants to be understood                  Wants to be appreciated

Wants to fill up the emptiness        Wants to empty out

Stimulated by praise                         Stimulated by a good challenge

   

And now, let's talk about 3 reasons why she isn't intimate with you anymore. Ready?

Let's go!

Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more love ❤️ and #ShinyMinds in it...

by Shiny Burcu Unsal

3 Reasons Why Men Shut Down

We are only 3 days away from the world's most romantic day: Valentine's Day.

In my opinion, Valentine's Day is a day that's dedicated to all the lovers in the world, including your own love for your beautiful self. It's the day we all pause and think and celebrate the existence and the importance of LOVE ❤️ in our lives.

And again, this love doesn't have to be the love of someone else, it might as well be the love of our beautiful self for our beautiful self. The idea is LOVE. ❤️ 

And for that reason, today in my Shiny Blog, I would love to talk about love and share some insights about the differences between feminine and masculine energy so that we can all better understand the dynamics of our romantic relationships and specifically why men shut down in their relationships.

To begin with, let's look at the differences between masculine and feminine energy:

FEMININE ENERGY                          MASCULINE ENERGY

Wants to be loved                             Wants freedom

Wants to be owned                           Wants freedom

Makes small things big                     Makes big things small

Hangs on to things                            Let's go   

Remembers                                        Forgets

Wants to be understood                  Wants to be appreciated

Wants to fill up the emptiness        Wants to empty out

Stimulated by praise                         Stimulated by a good challenge

   

And now, let's talk about 3 reasons why men shut down. Ready?

Let's go!

Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more love ❤️ and #ShinyMinds in it...

by Shiny Burcu Unsal

 

The Power Of Asking Permission

Today we're going to talk about asking permission. A subject that you may never even think about. Because it's so subtle in your communication. But the power of it is incredible.

And today I'm going to share 3 tips with you and those are going to improve:

1) The quality of your communication

2) The quality of your relationships

3) The quality of your life

Ready?

Let's go! 🚀 

 

Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more love ❤️ and #ShinyMinds in it...

by Shiny Burcu Unsal

4 Ideas To Be Consistent

As the proud creator of Neuro-Shine Technology™ and your Neuro-Shine Coach™, I am here to #shine those cute little neurons of yours.

Today I am hoping to achieve that by talking about how to be consistent. 

According to many different sources of statistics, consistency is one of the hardest achieved skills in the world.

If you look at the high performers, they are the ones who are so good at building and maintaining their consistency.

And guess what? I have 4 ideas to help you become even more consistent!

Ready?

Let's go!

Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more love and #shinyminds ...

By Shiny Burcu Unsal

 

#consistency

How To Boost Your Confidence

Confidence is such a fluffy word, isn't it? It can mean anything to anyone. And yet we still struggle, sometimes, to boost it, to have it more.

We are always looking for more ways to be more confident.

As someone who is in the field of emotional intelligence, positive psychology and personal development for almost a decade now, my clients from all over the world ask me the same question over and over again: "Shiny, how can I have more confidence?"

And that's why I've prepared this video for you today, because I have some ideas!

Ready?

Let's go!

Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more love ❤️ and #shinyminds ...

Shiny Burcu Unsal

3 Unpopular Ways To Handle Rejection

Today's topic is rejection.

In my opinion, rejection is a bit overrated, don't you think?

I mean it's such a big thing!

We fear rejection. We have anxiety about rejection. We have nightmares about rejection and getting rejected... Oh my goodness, shiny'ness...

I really believe it's overrated. And that's why today I'm going to share 3 unpopular ways to handle rejection.

If you are ready, let's go!

Made with love ❤️ for a better world with more love ❤️ and #ShinyMinds in it...

by Shiny Burcu Unsal

3 Qualities To Show Up As Your Authentic Self

Happy 2021 everyone! 🎉 

On this very first week of a fresh and fabulous year, I wanted to do something different and share one of my interviews with FORBES Coaches Council.

I got invited to FORBES Coaches Council back in 2016 and since then I've been sharing my advise, my content and getting interviewed by Forbes on a variety of leadership, personal and professional development topics.

This week, my topic is authenticity. As we are entering into a brand new chapter of life with 2021, I thought it'd be a pretty awesome idea to begin by designing a brand new chapter of our truthful, real and unapologetic being: our authenticity.

Therefore, I'll be talking about three qualities to show up as your authentic self. 

Ready?

Let's go baby!

To an authentic YOU in 2021!

 

Made with love ❤️ by FORBES & Shiny for a better world with more love ❤️  and #ShinyMinds ...

4 Steps To Claim Your Power Back

My last episode of 2020 is all about claiming our power back and starting fresh for 2021!

You know, we are still in this 2020, even though it's the last day of it. We started with Covid, and we experienced fires, earthquakes, protests, shutdowns, lockdowns, curfews and all kinds of unrest in the world. 

And... We are still experiencing... As of today, December 31, 2020.

So you might have lost your job. You might have lost your business. You might have your relationships, even your loved ones... Or the worst case scenario, You might have lost your touch with yourself and your inner power.

And it's important to understand how you can claim and gain your power back so that nothing can stop you in 2021!

And today, I want to focus on some strategies that can help you claim your power back, by starting my argument with the fact that everything that's been going on this year in 2020, with the Covid and the earthquakes and protests, they are all external. 

I am aware we live in this world and external factors are important for our well being. And at the same time, what's even more important is your internal world. Because your power is absolutely nothing but internal. 

So, I am going to start with my simple yet effective formula for change; which is:

CHANGE = AWARENESS X WILLINGNESS

When you apply this formula to anything you want to achieve in your life, you are going to receive fast and effective results. And that's why we are going to apply this formula to the strategies that I want to share with you today.

Let's begin!

Not only to the video but also to a Shiny, Bright and Brilliant, Fabulous, Delicious and Victorious, Healthy, Wealthy and Happy 2021 ahead!

Made with love ❤️ ️ for a better world with more love ❤️ ️ and #ShinyMinds in it...

3 Signs Of Charisma

First of all, Happy Happy Holidays dear Shiny Minds! 🎉 

I thought it'd be awesome to talk about our effect on others as we are wrapping up a very challenging 2020 that made us think and care about each other more than ever before.

So we are talking about "charisma" today! 

Who is charismatic? We are going to figure that out :) And I am going to share 3 signs that you are charismatic!

As part of my Leadership Communication Strategies Class that I teach at UCLA Extension, charisma is a topic that we cover. And I gotta tell you that it's a really hot topic.

We all have an idea about what charisma is and what it's not. And there are some undeniable aspects of charisma we will all agree upon.

As you are enjoying your Christmas Eve with your loved ones, let me share my take on it and let's make those neurons of yours shine even brighter with joy! 😀 

And here comes my three signs.

Ready?

Let's go!

Once again, happy holidays and big warm hugs to your lovely day... 🤗 

 

Made with LOVE ❤️ and GRATITUDE for SHINY MINDS ...

 

Shiny Burcu Unsal